Less shitty answer: Claim time where you can. Be clear with people, particularly family and friends, about what you need. Be willing to cut back on contact if they can't or won't respect your necessary terms of engagement.
Statistics: Posted by El Jefe — Wed Aug 28, 2019 7:11 am
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I can pump myself up to do it but here's what will happen: I stay up late because I can't just plop over asleep after having all the anxieties of being an idiot among people. They don't even have to be strangers - just anyone outside the immediate family or a few particular friends (thank God I have some actual RL friends I can see in person once in a while again). Or I might disregard people/activities I would like to regard because I need to lock down a half-hour of not talking, not sitting in the bright lights and noise, not dealing with News and Information. I will also eat as a means of shutting out other anxiety while feeling Comfort and Pleasantness from food, and we do not need that technique! No thanks!
Listening to music sometimes works; playing music is better; working out works but is often not a good option at the time this occurs (i.e. getting sweaty in clothes). Actually one of the nicer things I have found is our periodic online RPG, because one can be pleasantly social without having to be up in people's faces, feeling anxious and worthy of negative judgment, no idea what things to say in the moment, etc.
Luckily today is such a day when I can introvert it up like crazy for about two hours here and one hour there, and so I'm trying to build up stores for tomorrow with is another Fully extroverting day.
Statistics: Posted by Phoebe — Tue Aug 27, 2019 1:35 pm
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